How do cats seek attention?

I don’t know about everybody else, but my cats have never wagged their tails or barked at me when they wanted attention.  Part of this is due to the fact, that cats do not usually bark.

Cats are unlike any other pet I’ve ever owned.  Because they are different than any other pet, it is important to learn and understand their behaviors to help you recognize when they need some attention.

I know I said cats do not bark, but a lot of them do use their voices to get our attention.  Most often a cat will meow when they want our attention.  This meow is different than their normal meow.  After you get to know your furry friend, you will soon realize the difference between a wanting meow and an attention-getting meow.  And, once they have your attention they will purr or some cats even start making a chirping-like sound or stutter.  They may also start licking you as a form of grooming or even playfully biting you both before they get your attention or even continue afterward.  These are just a couple of the ways cats show their affection. 

And while cats do not wag their tails like a dog, not all meow or vocalize the same.  All, however, communicate through body language.  They like rubbing up against your legs or giving small headbutts or nuzzles.  Some cats may even approach you differently than normal.  We have all heard about an animal’s primal instincts in that they protect their necks and bellies.  Well, a cat seeking attention can sometimes roll onto its back and expose its belly or approach you with its head held higher than normal, exposing their neck.  These are signs of trust.  Believe it or not, humans do something similar, but that’s another topic.

Cats will often be more playful by bringing you their toys or even attacking you in a playful manner.  This usually means they are ready to play and will readily jump up and attack their toys such as a laser pointer, feathers or almost anything.

While cats tend to sleep throughout the day, when they are awake, they are in need of stimulation.  Both mentally and physically.  Playing with them, and petting them does both. 

I am not a cat psychologist, but I am sure cats do not like being ignored when they seek attention.  Please remember that you brought them into your house or apartment and when you did, you made them part of your family and as such, agreed to care for them.  This care is more than just food and water.

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